I found this quote some months ago and still think about it a lot. “Whether it is the best of times or the worst of times, it is the only time we've got.” ― Art Buchwald
Books are so unique because they will shatter you apart , while also giving you the perfect opportunity to notice the missing substructures in your pyche and personality . Recreate the proper mindset by integrating the new discoveries you have found . Confront , understand , integrate
When it comes to women it should say. Men know your vision, path and purpose then a woman gets on your program, helps you and caters to you or to help you with the mission or you let her go. She respects you and in turn you love her. End of story
I notice you are trying to fit all of his wisdom into a little red pill. It’s a misshapen attempt. Don’t bend the rules until you learn them better. This is just my perspective. I wish you all the best. Cheers.
@@anthonyhughes8026 I see where you’re are coming from however I am a natural man that has been dealing with females since I was young. Hundreds of women so I know women from real experience. What I say isn’t redpill. What I said definitely is the foundation for any nuances or details to happen.
@@weldscholars8253 Heard. Well, your way sounds a little bit severe for me but in the right hands a tool (like matter-of-factness etc.) has tremendous power. Thanks for talking.
@@giovanniortega1893 solo I learned to genuinely enjoy being around women without expecting sex. After ruining several great relationships cheating. I took a break from sex while touring met my wife I refuse to cheat EVER. We have a wonderful relationship
@@londontripz4824 A stoic is a gentleman/chivalrous and passionately loves his purpose in life though the love of his woman, as an asset complimenting his life, loving life whole heartly through her opposite feminized balance. Stoics have strong emotions as do other men, but has the emotional intelligence for control, and are gentle in guiding that's where the word gentleman is derived from. A stoic looks cold but is not. Due to today's generational comfort men show their more emotions due to their weaknesses (epigenictically certain genes expressed) and the fake smiling is, appeasement! (chimps showing teeth) 🤔 😍😎
The basic principle is that people end up in pain, not because the world is not rich enough to allow them to satisfy their needs, but because their representation of the world is impoverished. 'Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.' - Henry Ford “There is no reality except the one contained within us. That is why so many people live such an unreal life. They take the images outside of them for reality and never allow the world within to assert itself.” Steppenwolf by Hermann Hesse
You’d have to be insane to want a relationship after learning all this. This explains the endless issues people have, and always would have. Not getting married and having kids was the best decision I ever made. Now I go into my 40’s knowing I’ll walk alone from here. And it will be a more peaceful, productive walk I’m sure.
Try it first, then decide. Edit: I would defend anybody’s right to avoid people to the extent their community/situation can make affordances for this. People are complicated and not for everybody. Forcing socialization is an artifact of more primitive societies, IMO.
I lived as if my father was dead since i was 10 in 1980, due to this death. And learned most of what was said here on my own. Although it's a never ending journey.
As man all you want is peace, but, with the complexity of women(to say it in a respectful manner) it's kinda hard not to say impossible. That's why the happiest days of my life were when I was single 😂
We are simple creature but been with a woman can be never racking. I love my peace. My wife and I no longer together. I really feel great and looking forward to life.
Korean guy here with experiences with white women, Japanese women, no Chinese women unfortunately, and histpanic women and his statement about Japanese women being cooler and Korean women being hotter is so accurate.
Legend ! This was my very first book I read back to front. My absolute favourite book ever. Timeless master piece. And by keeping its niche, makes it just the merrier. Well done for video. Brilliant ❤
My son is 15 and starts reading this book. I hope he doesn’t live like I’m dead. If the purpose is to learn to be independent, I think it’s better to live like mother is dead not dad.
I think the "live as if your father were dead" is more of a metaphor for understanding that your father is a human, not a God or a monster. As children, we tend to either idolize or demonize our parents depending on how we feel about them in a given moment. Later on (sometimes after they've passed away), we realize that our parents did the best they could. We take the good things they gave us and leave the bad.
@@Alex-mf3jj Or maybe if you "live as if your father were dead" you start taking full responsibilities, there is nobody out there to take care of you and save your ass when you fuck things up, and we all know that everything start with taking responsibility and start doing.
He is right. I fuck up i really fuck up.... feeling very sick as fuck. I push the one i really love away she was testing every way she can. I really love her damn that pain going stick with me the rest of my life.
Roberts Greene 48 Laws of Power is good; it's his most famous work. It's case studies high profile people from history about the dynamics of relationships and consequences. Also, Dale Carnegie's book on "How to Win Friends and Influence people" is a classic if you like psychology and how to get people to like you.
a Man Can do what he wants as a work... following his passion is like not killing himself in a regular job. You can become Rich but yeah always be in Masculine energy.
If this is all true it really hits me hard... it unfortunately explains why my Ex broke up with me...Although I thought she did many things wrong... looking through the lens of what is written by Deida... There was not much she did wrong... Though I must say that when I listen to this it feels as if a man has to be very perfect... almost too perfect...
I differ, If I woman does not want you , it is just hurting own ego. For a man ego is like, what we want we get it by any means. We care about our ego. It is ego what keeps us as man.
Well if I was a man and listened to this, I’d think it’s too much work to be with a woman… but when you are matched with the right partner… the relationship is effortless and joyful
As a man, I wouldn't say this is too much work. I respond to these teachings particularly having reaped the consequences of not knowing them. It benefits both sexes. Being matched with the right partner is being matched with someone who meets your needs whether you realise it or not, that's why it feels effortless. Also, many relationships feel effortless, ... until they don't, particularly early on. Many men who grew up fatherless naturally end up with an imbalanced maculine/feminine energy tilted towards the feminine, particularly if they grew up with their mother and the consequence of this causes issues in relationships when women subconsciously reject the traits, which feminised men don't even realise they've displayed, never mind realising they even had those traits or / where they came from. This book helps explain what goes wrong / went wrong. Also, as men we like a challenge and we appreciate being told what the challenge is. So for fatherless men, who have no masciline male role model to naturally take after, this book explains the missing pieces.
im only doing this now so ONE DAY i can do what i really want to do it wont be different it never ends the creative challenges is to tussle and play make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift to the world
There was a waterfall near us, such a lovely thin streak of water, like a thread but white and moving. It fell from a great height, but it looked quite low, and it was half a mile away, though it did not seem fifty paces. I loved to listen to it at night, but it was then that I became so restless. Sometimes I went and climbed the mountain and stood there in the midst of the tall pines, all alone in the terrible silence, with our little village in the distance, and the sky so blue, and the sun so bright, and an old ruined castle on the mountain-side, far away. I used to watch the line where earth and sky met, and longed to go and seek there the key of all mysteries, thinking that I might find there a new life, perhaps some great city where life should be grander and richer--and then it struck me that life may be grand enough even in a prison.
Lesson 50: Men won't settle for other Men's bullshit, but women will agree with each other and strengthen their viewpoints. This right here is the difference between Republicans and Democrats. Republicans won't get behind someone they disagree with, Democrats will band together and vote for anyone on their ticket regardless of their feelings for the person.
18:00 that is the truth! I used to box and kickbox. When I was younger man night of one of my fights. Seen a friend from high-school Holly, cute little brunette with freckles. She never paid much attention to me but we had a few classes together. We chat few minutes but I gotta go get prepped for fight. It was good night for me and I get the W. I don't even have my gloves off and Holly is grabbing at me "Take me home, right now!" LOL. My coach a wise man "it's your night champ"
Yes, I have realized from personal experience and my acute self-awareness that I will often want more than one woman and she will want often want more than one man/ Conventional society unwisely glorifies monogamy and it is a tragic mistake/ Monogamy is egotism and that horrendous attitude will banefully impact on truthfulness, mutual trust, sincerity and unconditional true love/
To implement all 51 of these lessons as a man of over 50 years old I feel you need to be at least 3 different people. No thanks it's easier to be alone and live your one true self.
Interesting, I'm 42 and am enjoying being single because it's a peaceful existence. I do what I want when I want. I guess this isn't all that uncommon.
She wants you to be fearless of death to protect the love you have for her, but she dont want you to steer away from your purpose for her…. Never allow your desire to be suppressed, but dont let her think you care about losing her…. She will test you to see if you slip away from your purpose, but she dumb and doesnt understand why a man should stay in his purpose…. Super contradicting bro.
It is not contradicting if you could think about it more. In my opinion It reflects the wavy ness of female nature the point to be taken here is focus on the purpose keep being the man she was attracted to the first time you met up don't let her control you, show love but do so in the framework of Work first Bitches second
Yeah, that is a ridiculous statement to make obviously. I think the intention was aimed at a deeper truth, which is that the feminine never lies as a collective.
in the book, the 51 lessons are presented sequentially and divided into 8 parts but we believe that each lesson is standalone, and anyone can select which one is relevant to his/her situation
You probably think a confident man can wear painted nails and make up and act like an EMOtional Soft Punk. Who asks queer then abuses women boy just stop that’s a CON MAN, a Down Low Man, A Bottom… Expressing his inner pink across the booty sweats
Believe it or not the hard is best lesson in life, once you reach that success you have that story to tell to reach people that has that same struggle keep pushing
I found this quote some months ago and still think about it a lot.
“Whether it is the best of times or the worst of times, it is the only time we've got.”
― Art Buchwald
As in everthing in life time changes as well its only temporary
Books are so unique because they will shatter you apart , while also giving you the perfect opportunity to notice the missing substructures in your pyche and personality . Recreate the proper mindset by integrating the new discoveries you have found .
Confront , understand , integrate
When it comes to women it should say. Men know your vision, path and purpose then a woman gets on your program, helps you and caters to you or to help you with the mission or you let her go. She respects you and in turn you love her. End of story
I notice you are trying to fit all of his wisdom into a little red pill. It’s a misshapen attempt. Don’t bend the rules until you learn them better. This is just my perspective. I wish you all the best. Cheers.
@@anthonyhughes8026 I see where you’re are coming from however I am a natural man that has been dealing with females since I was young. Hundreds of women so I know women from real experience. What I say isn’t redpill. What I said definitely is the foundation for any nuances or details to happen.
@@weldscholars8253 Heard. Well, your way sounds a little bit severe for me but in the right hands a tool (like matter-of-factness etc.) has tremendous power. Thanks for talking.
@@DJK-cq2uy love your contribution to the discourse. Keep it up
Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts. I like that one.
Always trust your eyes and not your ears, when you do this you’ll hear things in a different light
Deep ✊
26 is a huge one to me I learned after a relationship I ruined that sexual discipline is very important as a man.
How did u learn that Or come to that conclusion, with help or solo?
@@giovanniortega1893 solo I learned to genuinely enjoy being around women without expecting sex. After ruining several great relationships cheating. I took a break from sex while touring met my wife I refuse to cheat EVER. We have a wonderful relationship
Same cheat doesnt help you on the futur the drama isnt worth it
Love this!! Needed these lessons a long time ⌛️ ago!
#34 is such a big one in my opinion women love the feeling of being passionately and gently guided
Can you elaborate a bit
@@londontripz4824 A stoic is a gentleman/chivalrous and passionately loves his purpose in life though the love of his woman, as an asset complimenting his life, loving life whole heartly through her opposite feminized balance. Stoics have strong emotions as do other men, but has the emotional intelligence for control, and are gentle in guiding that's where the word gentleman is derived from. A stoic looks cold but is not. Due to today's generational comfort men show their more emotions due to their weaknesses (epigenictically certain genes expressed) and the fake smiling is, appeasement! (chimps showing teeth) 🤔 😍😎
I can assure you that is complete nonsense.
The basic principle is that people end up in pain, not because the world is not rich enough to allow them to satisfy their needs, but because their representation of the world is impoverished.
'Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.' - Henry Ford
“There is no reality except the one contained within us. That is why so many people live such an unreal life. They take the images outside of them for reality and never allow the world within to assert itself.” Steppenwolf by Hermann Hesse
You’d have to be insane to want a relationship after learning all this.
This explains the endless issues people have, and always would have. Not getting married and having kids was the best decision I ever made. Now I go into my 40’s knowing I’ll walk alone from here. And it will be a more peaceful, productive walk I’m sure.
You are correct
It’ll be a lonely path but if it’s the right one for you, tread it.
It’s true that not everyone actually enjoys the feminine, inasmuch as desiring to penetrate her sexually.
I’m glad you made your peace with this. 😊
I’d say it’ll be very lonely. But to each their own
Try it first, then decide.
Edit: I would defend anybody’s right to avoid people to the extent their community/situation can make affordances for this. People are complicated and not for everybody. Forcing socialization is an artifact of more primitive societies, IMO.
I lived as if my father was dead since i was 10 in 1980, due to this death. And learned most of what was said here on my own. Although it's a never ending journey.
Wished I could have seen this or better yet read the book when I was 20 years old.
Currently 20
@@billymills4238lucky you
@@billymills4238bro lol. Don’t be this type of dude. You didn’t need to let him know your 20, just be greatful your young and get wisdom.
For real, wish I read this back in 2004
As man all you want is peace, but, with the complexity of women(to say it in a respectful manner) it's kinda hard not to say impossible. That's why the happiest days of my life were when I was single 😂
We are simple creature but been with a woman can be never racking. I love my peace. My wife and I no longer together. I really feel great and looking forward to life.
I think this book is about transcending and overcoming that. The superior man learns how to metabolize that feminine complexity
I agree 100 percent
Korean guy here with experiences with white women, Japanese women, no Chinese women unfortunately, and histpanic women and his statement about Japanese women being cooler and Korean women being hotter is so accurate.
Wow!!
Legend ! This was my very first book I read back to front. My absolute favourite book ever. Timeless master piece. And by keeping its niche, makes it just the merrier. Well done for video. Brilliant ❤
Valuable thoughts, tks for sharing.
🔑 Lean just beyond your edge.
Thank you for making this wonderful summary of this great book.
Great book? 😂😂😂😂😂
Lesson 29! Biggest lesson
My son is 15 and starts reading this book. I hope he doesn’t live like I’m dead. If the purpose is to learn to be independent, I think it’s better to live like mother is dead not dad.
I think the "live as if your father were dead" is more of a metaphor for understanding that your father is a human, not a God or a monster. As children, we tend to either idolize or demonize our parents depending on how we feel about them in a given moment. Later on (sometimes after they've passed away), we realize that our parents did the best they could. We take the good things they gave us and leave the bad.
😂😂 love it
@@Alex-mf3jj Or maybe if you "live as if your father were dead" you start taking full responsibilities, there is nobody out there to take care of you and save your ass when you fuck things up, and we all know that everything start with taking responsibility and start doing.
#3 oh yes it is. He needs to live for himself, no one else.
I’m glad your son is reading this. He needs it.
Thanks so much David!
Great video, thanks! 👏👏👏👏
Amazing 👏
this book is an essential read
19:23❤26:00 ❤26:07 and lesson fifty 26:19💪🏾🎊☝🏽💯men & Women shld practice Restoring and Dissolving
He is right. I fuck up i really fuck up.... feeling very sick as fuck. I push the one i really love away she was testing every way she can. I really love her damn that pain going stick with me the rest of my life.
Powerful ☄️
This is about is good as Robert Green's Works. Nice!
What books of his are good please?
Roberts Greene 48 Laws of Power is good; it's his most famous work. It's case studies high profile people from history about the dynamics of relationships and consequences. Also, Dale Carnegie's book on "How to Win Friends and Influence people" is a classic if you like psychology and how to get people to like you.
@@chacotaco3607 The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene, most are on Utube.
You can't be serious!! 😂😂 Really!?
@@DJK-cq2uy For Robert Green, Yes. I read several of his books. This was the best in my opinion. Just my opinion.
Love it 🎉🎉🎉
a Man Can do what he wants as a work...
following his passion is like not killing himself in a regular job.
You can become Rich but yeah always be in Masculine energy.
Wow!!😂😂😂😂😂
Very insightful
If this is all true it really hits me hard... it unfortunately explains why my Ex broke up with me...Although I thought she did many things wrong... looking through the lens of what is written by Deida... There was not much she did wrong...
Though I must say that when I listen to this it feels as if a man has to be very perfect... almost too perfect...
This is life changing 🧘 thank you🤩
Brief and clear thxs
I differ, If I woman does not want you , it is just hurting own ego. For a man ego is like, what we want we get it by any means. We care about our ego. It is ego what keeps us as man.
Very educative
Well if I was a man and listened to this, I’d think it’s too much work to be with a woman… but when you are matched with the right partner… the relationship is effortless and joyful
Any man deterred by hard work shouldn’t claim to be a man
It's only "too much" if you believe it is
As a man, I wouldn't say this is too much work. I respond to these teachings particularly having reaped the consequences of not knowing them. It benefits both sexes.
Being matched with the right partner is being matched with someone who meets your needs whether you realise it or not, that's why it feels effortless. Also, many relationships feel effortless, ... until they don't, particularly early on.
Many men who grew up fatherless naturally end up with an imbalanced maculine/feminine energy tilted towards the feminine, particularly if they grew up with their mother and the consequence of this causes issues in relationships when women subconsciously reject the traits, which feminised men don't even realise they've displayed, never mind realising they even had those traits or / where they came from.
This book helps explain what goes wrong / went wrong.
Also, as men we like a challenge and we appreciate being told what the challenge is.
So for fatherless men, who have no masciline male role model to naturally take after, this book explains the missing pieces.
She right it is to much 😂😂 but it is what it is
This was amazing to watch 😂
One day will happen, but the day never comes up
3:35 that caught me off guard
Haha
👀🤣
im only doing this now so ONE DAY i can do what i really want to do
it wont be different it never ends the creative challenges is to tussle and play make love with the present moment while giving your unique gift to the world
There was a waterfall near us, such a lovely thin streak of water, like a thread but white and moving. It fell from a great height, but it looked quite low, and it was half a mile away, though it did not seem fifty paces. I loved to listen to it at night, but it was then that I became so restless. Sometimes I went and climbed the mountain and stood there in the midst of the tall pines, all alone in the terrible silence, with our little village in the distance, and the sky so blue, and the sun so bright, and an old ruined castle on the mountain-side, far away. I used to watch the line where earth and sky met, and longed to go and seek there the key of all mysteries, thinking that I might find there a new life, perhaps some great city where life should be grander and richer--and then it struck me that life may be grand enough even in a prison.
You need to read this book before even getting into a relationship
Too much in there about women. Follow your purpose and keep in frame. She must fit with you all the rest will follow.
9:03 🙏🏼✨🙏🏾 9:06
14:00 is the realest ish
Lesson 50: Men won't settle for other Men's bullshit, but women will agree with each other and strengthen their viewpoints.
This right here is the difference between Republicans and Democrats. Republicans won't get behind someone they disagree with, Democrats will band together and vote for anyone on their ticket regardless of their feelings for the person.
It's literally the exact opposite...
Lost on a few of these,will get BETTER😅
Lesson 33. That's it.
Right on! 🎉
18:00 that is the truth! I used to box and kickbox. When I was younger man night of one of my fights. Seen a friend from high-school Holly, cute little brunette with freckles. She never paid much attention to me but we had a few classes together. We chat few minutes but I gotta go get prepped for fight. It was good night for me and I get the W. I don't even have my gloves off and Holly is grabbing at me "Take me home, right now!" LOL. My coach a wise man "it's your night champ"
Find your purpose or your wasting air - Nipsey Hussle
interesting!
Hohhoho. My woman will understand 😂
25:50 "The Divine way, or the highway"
Great pieces......however so concentrated on women traits and how to handle them.
You must know your purpose but also be willing to change everything and find your purpose. I’m hearing some contradictions here
Andrew Tate read this book and gave us the same blueprint under a new name, the top g
That man is garbage, a man should never go to Eastern Europe to do sex trafficking, that guy is not a man
This is funny as hell 😂😢😅
This is more about women than men
Damn!! Lesson #33 is on point!! ☠️😂 16:00
This book have in Tamil language
is this this hole book?
Just a quick summary
Pretty impossible for any man to go by all these 51 let alone even 25 principles. No wonder why Todays society is difficult for men.
Why?
Nothing is impossible. Start with a few or break them down into chunks and remember them
How is this impossible? Most of this is based on the foundation of self respect….
lesson 19 :)
Yes, I have realized from personal experience and my acute self-awareness that I will often want more than one woman and she will want often want more than one man/ Conventional society unwisely glorifies monogamy and it is a tragic mistake/ Monogamy is egotism and that horrendous attitude will banefully impact on truthfulness, mutual trust, sincerity and unconditional true love/
Monogamy isn't "egotism". Stop trying to justify your hedonistic polyamorous desires.
4:52😂😂😂😂:..IM AT THAT POINT WHERE I DONT KNOW WHAT TGE HELL IS GOING ON😂😂
I've been covering this book chapter by chapter on my channel. It's arguably the best book to align your life to.
To implement all 51 of these lessons as a man of over 50 years old I feel you need to be at least 3 different people. No thanks it's easier to be alone and live your one true self.
You need to embrace the masculine. Which you're clearly not.
I “feel” “it’s easier” you sound like a women. No offense. But family and mastering relationships is worth it as a man. (Although not easy)
You do you. I will ALWAYS aspire to be a better man in any and every way
@@road_to_riches2000 respect to you sir, and all the best blessings to your life
Interesting, I'm 42 and am enjoying being single because it's a peaceful existence. I do what I want when I want. I guess this isn't all that uncommon.
Better Late than never
Part pls 😭
She wants you to be fearless of death to protect the love you have for her, but she dont want you to steer away from your purpose for her…. Never allow your desire to be suppressed, but dont let her think you care about losing her…. She will test you to see if you slip away from your purpose, but she dumb and doesnt understand why a man should stay in his purpose…. Super contradicting bro.
It is not contradicting if you could think about it more. In my opinion
It reflects the wavy ness of female nature the point to be taken here is focus on the purpose keep being the man she was attracted to the first time you met up don't let her control you, show love but do so in the framework of Work first Bitches second
Yeah this is a middle schooler's idea of relationships.
I believe there's context missing.
"women are not liars" 🤔🙄😂
Then right after he said something about them being liars.
Yeah, that is a ridiculous statement to make obviously. I think the intention was aimed at a deeper truth, which is that the feminine never lies as a collective.
Women lie because they can get away with it, and they can get away with it only because of the week men around them.
😂😂😂
Y’all don’t get that part
Who is this supposed to 'insinuate'. Is this the right word ;)
For Someone who's been there done that who needs women. To much work. Plus the best company is your own. Or with your dog.
In other words, be yourself and stop blaming women for your own self ignorance.
Scorpio male 😀 Finley some good 👍 shit! Wow took forever too find some good advice or quotes!🦂💥♏️👍💫♏️💥💥🦂
Where the f*ck has this book been all my life??!!!
❤
The lessons were right except the ones about women. Those lessons were some of the biggest simp mentalities I've ever heard.
Was this written by a Woman???
Seems so. Hyping them.
Yep. Thats womem, and I love it.
Anyone fully understand # 21? Please advise
Reflect on lesson 18
This sounds like a bunch of New Age woo woo wa wa
50/50
so does it say how to start? lik what should be the first step?
in the book, the 51 lessons are presented sequentially and divided into 8 parts
but we believe that each lesson is standalone, and anyone can select which one is relevant to his/her situation
Seriously. A confident man that can comfortably wear pink, especially in the company of other men, is alpha as fuck.
You probably think a confident man can wear painted nails and make up and act like an EMOtional Soft Punk. Who asks queer then abuses women boy just stop that’s a CON MAN, a Down Low Man, A Bottom… Expressing his inner pink across the booty sweats
I don’t care there is no shortage of masculinity in the world
22:14 🤌🏾🔥
هل الكتاب كامل؟
The book is this not Its 51 points get the book.
Didn’t enjoy the ai narration. Sounds too robotic
Is it fine for women who listen to or read this book and take the lesson to build themselves as a man??
we think so, though we believed that the book was written for men, some of the lessons seem applicable to women too
He also wrote a book for women I think.
What you wrote does not make any sense, thtats the first sign...
17:23
I need to know more about that orgasm technique...for science. 😁
Lmao this guys reading this at gun point
wish I didnt had to learn some lessons the hard way...
Believe it or not the hard is best lesson in life, once you reach that success you have that story to tell to reach people that has that same struggle keep pushing
The author described a child in lesson 16 and called it feminine nature...
13:20
Lol all the stuff about women. I'll just be single at this point.
Ok. A lot of this very hit or miss. With a lot of miss
"It's not her fault that she's bitchy and complaining " haha